It’s Not A Breakup, It’s A Breakthrough
It’s not a breakup, it’s a breakthrough!
Breakups are tough, actually wait, they’re devastating! I know that because not too long ago I thought my world ended after a breakup. I never thought that I would be able to breathe again or know how to survive in this world without the love of my life. But guess what I did and I feel damn good everyday that I went through this breakup.
It’s not easy sitting here and writing about my love life and the pain I felt and still feel. I was a sad person and lost all the confidence and love I had for myself. I felt that if the one person I wanted to love me back can’t do that, then why should I love myself. I kept thinking about him and what he was doing and how he’s living his life without me, but I didn’t think about myself. This was the first time I realized that I need to go back to loving myself again. I was always a confident person before this relationship that loved myself. We all have our insecurities, but I never thought of myself as a weak woman. But when I was in that relationship I felt weak and that I needed that person in my life to make me strong.
It was and still is a journey of self discovery. When you’re with someone for many years, you don’t know how to look outside of the box. I realized that I was a completely different Nora. Everything I was passionate about didn’t mean much to me. I always said that I wouldn’t discuss my personal life on this blog, but how can I not when all these stories are what inspire me and make me the woman I always wanted to become. Now that I’m out of that relationship I became more in touch with my values and learned more about myself. It was sort of a revelation when I got back in touch with the confident and self loving Nora.
This post isn’t meant to bash anyone. I wanted to share a little bit of my experience so that anyone out there who is experiencing a breakup can know that they are worthy of all the love in the world. You will get through this even thought it feels like the world is over. Writing this and being at the level I’m at now makes me feel like a badass. I’m a badass because I went through this situation, I’m still standing, breathing, and loving myself!
Ok ladies, so a leather jacket and a pair of pumps is your go to outfit after your breakup revelation. Black leather jackets have always given that badass look. I’m a girl that loves her heels, so I decided to pair my camouflage booties with this jacket. Leather jackets are easy to dress. Any pair of pants or shirt will go with it. It’s important to have a good leather jacket in your wardrobe for those days you’re feeling like a badass!
Leather Jacket: Macy’s $45
Booties: BCBG $40